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Troy L. Love, LCSW

Troy L. Love, LCSW

Holding Someone Accountable Without Shaming Them: A Guide for Effective Conversations

As a therapist who works with clients to develop shame resilience, it sometimes is a challenge not to shame the client when they haven’t…

Jun 28

Holding Someone Accountable Without Shaming Them: A Guide for Effective Conversations

Jun 28

Troy L. Love, LCSW

What Pain Still Teaches Me

I’m sitting in the back row of my children’s high school theater as close to the middle as I can get. It is the third night and final night…

May 10, 2023

What Pain Still Teaches Me

May 10, 2023

Troy L. Love, LCSW

The Art of Neuroplasticity: Using Working Affirmations to Rewrite Maladaptive Core Beliefs

A powerful thing can happen when a person experiences attachment wounding, especially when it happens repeatedly or in a traumatic way. We…

Feb 13, 2023

The Art of Neuroplasticity: Using Working Affirmations to Rewrite Maladaptive Core Beliefs

Feb 13, 2023

Troy L. Love, LCSW

The Skills of the Adult Self

In Mary Peiffer’s book, Reviving Ophelia, she identifies 12 skills that adults need to have in order to be successful and productive in…

Dec 31, 2022

The Skills of the Adult Self

Dec 31, 2022

Troy L. Love, LCSW

Attachment Wounds Explained

The Finding Peace model always starts out with a yin and yang. On one side, we have peace. On the other side, we have pain. We live in a…

Sep 1, 2022

Attachment Wounds Explained

Sep 1, 2022

Troy L. Love, LCSW

The Parable of the Water Buckets

I am standing along the banks of the Colorado River. The morning sun is rising above the horizon turning the speckled clouds across the sky…

Jun 28, 2021

The Parable of the Water Buckets

Jun 28, 2021

Troy L. Love, LCSW

How the Six Shadows of Shame Gang Up On Us and What to Do About Them

One of my favorite places to visit growing up was the science museum and the planetarium. Apart from the opportunity to buy space ice…

Jul 14, 2020

How the Six Shadows of Shame Gang Up On Us and What to Do About Them

Jul 14, 2020

Troy L. Love, LCSW

Healing in a Hospital Room — It’s Not What You Think

Ten years ago, my rejection wound was reopened. The details are not important. The bottom line is that two men whom I trusted made…

Apr 6, 2020

Healing in a Hospital Room — It’s Not What You Think

Apr 6, 2020

Troy L. Love, LCSW

I Learned Something When I Pulled Out the Palm Trees

About ten years ago, my family moved into a new house. Situated near the front of the house were three young palm trees, each about 12…

Apr 24, 2019

I Learned Something When I Pulled Out the Palm Trees

Apr 24, 2019

Troy L. Love, LCSW

Five Grouding Activities You Can Do in Five Minutes or Less

Nobody got time for that.” is an expression I hear clients tell me often.

Apr 20, 2019

Five Grouding Activities You Can Do in Five Minutes or Less

Apr 20, 2019

Troy L. Love, LCSW

Troy L. Love, LCSW

Amazon-Best Selling Author of Finding Peace: Healing from Loss, Neglect, Rejection, Abandonment, Betrayal, and Abuse. Learn more at findingpeaceconsulting.com.

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