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Troy L. Love, LCSW

Troy L. Love, LCSW

What Pain Still Teaches Me

I’m sitting in the back row of my children’s high school theater as close to the middle as I can get. It is the third night and final night…

5 min readMay 10, 2023

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What Pain Still Teaches Me

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Troy L. Love, LCSW

The Art of Neuroplasticity: Using Working Affirmations to Rewrite Maladaptive Core Beliefs

A powerful thing can happen when a person experiences attachment wounding, especially when it happens repeatedly or in a traumatic way. We…

4 min readFeb 13, 2023

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The Art of Neuroplasticity: Using Working Affirmations to Rewrite Maladaptive Core Beliefs

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Troy L. Love, LCSW

The Skills of the Adult Self

In Mary Peiffer’s book, Reviving Ophelia, she identifies 12 skills that adults need to have in order to be successful and productive in…

11 min readDec 31, 2022

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The Skills of the Adult Self

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Troy L. Love, LCSW

Attachment Wounds Explained

The Finding Peace model always starts out with a yin and yang. On one side, we have peace. On the other side, we have pain. We live in a…

18 min readSep 1, 2022

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Attachment Wounds Explained

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Troy L. Love, LCSW

The Parable of the Water Buckets

I am standing along the banks of the Colorado River. The morning sun is rising above the horizon turning the speckled clouds across the sky…

4 min readJun 28, 2021

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The Parable of the Water Buckets

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Troy L. Love, LCSW

How the Six Shadows of Shame Gang Up On Us and What to Do About Them

One of my favorite places to visit growing up was the science museum and the planetarium. Apart from the opportunity to buy space ice…

5 min readJul 14, 2020

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How the Six Shadows of Shame Gang Up On Us and What to Do About Them

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Troy L. Love, LCSW

Healing in a Hospital Room — It’s Not What You Think

Ten years ago, my rejection wound was reopened. The details are not important. The bottom line is that two men whom I trusted made…

5 min readApr 6, 2020

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Healing in a Hospital Room — It’s Not What You Think

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Troy L. Love, LCSW

I Learned Something When I Pulled Out the Palm Trees

About ten years ago, my family moved into a new house. Situated near the front of the house were three young palm trees, each about 12…

4 min readApr 24, 2019

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I Learned Something When I Pulled Out the Palm Trees

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Troy L. Love, LCSW

Five Grouding Activities You Can Do in Five Minutes or Less

Nobody got time for that.” is an expression I hear clients tell me often.

7 min readApr 20, 2019

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Five Grouding Activities You Can Do in Five Minutes or Less

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Troy L. Love, LCSW

God’s Inbox

Lately, I have been reading more about surrender. It is definitely a concept that is difficult for a lot of people to understand…

4 min readApr 17, 2019

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God’s Inbox

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Troy L. Love, LCSW

Troy L. Love, LCSW

Amazon-Best Selling Author of Finding Peace: Healing from Loss, Neglect, Rejection, Abandonment, Betrayal, and Abuse. Learn more at findingpeaceconsulting.com.

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